Spiritual Parenting
“A Catholic guide to cultivating the interior life of your children.”
Short Summary
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A clear plan for cultivating your child’s interior life
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Practical habits for forming virtue in the home
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Guidance rooted in Catholic tradition, not trends
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Tools for shaping imagination, prayer, and family culture
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Confidence to act as the spiritual director of your home

Good is not enough, you need a plan.






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What Parents are Facing
Countless parents lament that their children have drifted from the Faith. They recall the discipline they enforced, the Catholic schools they sacrificed to afford, and the religious practices they tried to maintain, yet they remain bewildered about where things went wrong.
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What Most Books Teach
Most parenting books focus on behavior, rules, or doctrine. Catholic tradition teaches that the heart of a pious soul is far deeper.
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A Vision for Catholic Family Life
This book does not simply tell parents what to teach their children. It guides them into cultivating what the great Catholic theologians call the spiritual life, the interior formation that shapes a child’s soul from within.
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“Disorder in society is the result of disorder in the family.”
St. Angela Merici
What This Book Offers

Cultivating the spiritual life in your children begins with your own formation as a parent. This section helps you understand how grace and holiness equip you to become the spiritual director God calls you to be within your home.
Instilling the Spiritual Life in Your Children
Learn how to direct your child’s spiritual growth with clarity and confidence. Discover practical ways to nurture prayer, virtue, and sacramental awareness so that your child learns to recognize and respond to God’s presence in daily life.
Guiding Your Child’s Interior Life
A family’s spiritual life flourishes within a culture of love, order, and reverence. This section teaches how to shape your home environment around the rhythms of faith—daily prayer, Sunday worship, and shared acts of charity—so that holiness becomes the family’s natural atmosphere.
Building a Healthy Family Culture
The imagination is the gateway to the soul. Learn how to protect it from spiritual dangers and fill it with truth, beauty, and goodness. This guidance helps parents discern media, stories, and experiences that either strengthen or weaken the child’s interior life.
Guarding the Imagination
Read the Forward
Parenthood is among the greatest gifts God bestows, and also among the most serious responsibilities. To welcome a child into the world is to receive a soul destined for eternity. Every decision, every habit, and every word spoken within the home shapes, in some measure, that child’s eternal destiny. For this reason, the Christian home cannot focus only on worldly success, but must recognize the spiritual vocation entrusted to parents in the raising of their children. In Spiritual Parenting: How to Sanctify the Child, Perry Smith approaches parenthood from this higher perspective. Writing as a teacher who has seen both the strengths and the struggles of modern Catholic families, he offers a clear and grounded vision of the home as a place where holiness is cultivated. His concern is simple and profound: that parents learn how to lead their children to heaven. This book reminds us that the primary task of parents is not merely to raise polite, educated, or successful children, but to form saints. Children are entrusted to their parents by God, not as possessions, but as souls to be guided toward Him. The home, therefore, is meant to be more than a place of safety or comfort. It is meant to be a place of formation, a school of holiness where virtue is learned, prayer is practiced, and the love of God becomes the center of daily life. Many parents today feel overwhelmed. They are surrounded by conflicting advice, cultural pressures, and endless distractions. They want what is best for their children, but they are often uncertain about how to provide it. The author meets this need with clarity and conviction. Rather than focusing only on outward behavior or academic achievement, he turns the reader’s attention to the deeper formation of the child’s soul. He examines the spiritual life, the growth of virtue, the role of family culture, and the powerful influence parents exercise simply by the way they live. One of the great strengths of this work is its insistence that parents themselves must become the models of the life they hope to see in their children. A child learns far more from what he sees than from what he is told. When parents pray, practice virtue, and order their lives toward God, they quietly shape the imagination and desires of their children. In this way, holiness is passed on not only through instruction, but through example. Smith writes with a sober awareness of the challenges facing families today. Many of the cultural supports that once strengthened Christian life have weakened or disappeared. As a result, the work of formation now rests more directly on parents. Homes must be shaped intentionally, with attention to prayer, recreation, friendships, and the small choices that influence a child’s heart. Parents should prayerfully read and reflect on the wisdom found in these pages, allowing its direct, practical, and spiritual counsel to shape their lives. This book is not written to overwhelm, but to give parents confidence, direction, and hope. As families make small changes, one step at a time, those efforts can bear fruit for eternity. It is my sincere hope that, in reading this book, parents may rediscover the beauty of their vocation. May they come to see their homes as God sees them: places where souls are formed, where love is purified, and where heaven begins to take root. For when parents take seriously the call to sanctify their children, they share in one of the most noble and beautiful works entrusted to human hands. Rev. Scott A. Haynes

Author: Perry Smith
After six years of discerning a vocation to religious life, I came to recognize that my calling was to educate the faithful as a husband and father. Those years of formation shaped me deeply, both spiritually and intellectually, and continue to influence how I live, teach, and understand the world. Alongside personal study and the guidance of mentors from religious life, I pursued formal academic training, earning a major in philosophy and theology as well as a master’s degree in philosophy. My aspiration is to help others know and love the Catholic faith, so that our Holy Mother Church may be more deeply cherished for her beauty and her doctrine more confidently defended. I have found this goal most readily achieved through the teaching of the Angelic Doctor, St. Thomas Aquinas, whose wisdom has provided the intellectual foundation for my understanding of the Catholic faith.
Why I Wrote this Book?
I wrote this as a teacher who has walked with countless families in classical Catholic education, this book speaks directly into the gaps many parents feel but cannot name. Its purpose is simple: to help raise a generation of families capable of nurturing the spiritual life in their children and building a wholesome Catholic culture. When you finish, pass it on to a friend and strengthen the community that makes this way of life possible
Allow us to help lead your families to sanctity.
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