
The problems parents face
Many Catholic parents have sacrificed, disciplined, taught, and prayed, yet still wonder why their children drift from the Faith.
Why Spiritual Parenting Is Different

Good is not enough, you need a plan

What most books miss
Many parenting books focus on behavior, rules, or information. But Catholic tradition goes deeper: the child’s soul must be formed from within.

A vision for catholic family life
Spiritual Parenting helps cultivate the interior life of the home forming children in prayer, virtue, grace, and a truly Catholic culture.


“Disorder in the society is the result of disorder in the family.”




St. Angela merici



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What Priests Are Saying
Smith writes with a sober awareness of the challenges facing families today. Many of the cultural supports that once strengthened Christian life have weakened or disappeared. As a result, the work of formation now rests more directly on parents. Homes must be shaped intentionally, with attention to prayer, recreation, friendships, and the small choices that influence a child’s heart."
- Rev. Scott A. Haynes on Spiritual Parenting



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What Theologians Are Saying
Spiritual Parenting offers a thoughtful and theologically grounded vision of the domestic church, guiding parents beyond technique toward genuine spiritual formation. Perry Smith successfully integrates Catholic spirituality, virtue formation, and practical wisdom into a compelling framework for family life"
- Dr. Sebastian Mahfood, OP, Lay Dominican of the Province of St. Albert the Great

After six years of discerning a vocation to religious life, I came to recognize that my calling was to educate the faithful as a husband and father. Those years of formation shaped me deeply, both spiritually and intellectually, and continue to influence how I live, teach, and understand the world.
Alongside personal study and the guidance of mentors from religious life, I pursued formal academic training, earning a major in philosophy and theology as well as a master’s degree in philosophy. My aspiration is to help others know and love the Catholic faith, so that our Holy Mother Church may be more deeply cherished for her beauty and her doctrine more confidently defended.
I have found this goal most readily achieved through the teaching of the Angelic Doctor, St. Thomas Aquinas, whose wisdom has provided the intellectual foundation for my understanding of the Catholic faith.



Read the Forward

Parenthood is among the greatest gifts God bestows, and also among the most serious responsibilities. To welcome a child into the world is to receive a soul destined for eternity. Every decision, every habit, and every word spoken within the home shapes, in some measure, that child’s eternal destiny. For this reason, the Christian home cannot focus only on worldly success, but must recognize the spiritual vocation entrusted to parents in the raising of their children. In Spiritual Parenting: How to Sanctify the Child, Perry Smith approaches parenthood from this higher perspective. Writing as a teacher who has seen both the strengths and the struggles of modern Catholic families, he offers a clear and grounded vision of the home as a place where holiness is cultivated. His concern is simple and profound: that parents learn how to lead their children to heaven. This book reminds us that the primary task of parents is not merely to raise polite, educated, or successful children, but to form saints. Children are entrusted to their parents by God, not as possessions, but as souls to be guided toward Him. The home, therefore, is meant to be more than a place of safety or comfort. It is meant to be a place of formation, a school of holiness where virtue is learned, prayer is practiced, and the love of God becomes the center of daily life. Many parents today feel overwhelmed. They are surrounded by conflicting advice, cultural pressures, and endless distractions. They want what is best for their children, but they are often uncertain about how to provide it. The author meets this need with clarity and conviction. Rather than focusing only on outward behavior or academic achievement, he turns the reader’s attention to the deeper formation of the child’s soul. He examines the spiritual life, the growth of virtue, the role of family culture, and the powerful influence parents exercise simply by the way they live. One of the great strengths of this work is its insistence that parents themselves must become the models of the life they hope to see in their children. A child learns far more from what he sees than from what he is told. When parents pray, practice virtue, and order their lives toward God, they quietly shape the imagination and desires of their children. In this way, holiness is passed on not only through instruction, but through example. Smith writes with a sober awareness of the challenges facing families today. Many of the cultural supports that once strengthened Christian life have weakened or disappeared. As a result, the work of formation now rests more directly on parents. Homes must be shaped intentionally, with attention to prayer, recreation, friendships, and the small choices that influence a child’s heart. Parents should prayerfully read and reflect on the wisdom found in these pages, allowing its direct, practical, and spiritual counsel to shape their lives. This book is not written to overwhelm, but to give parents confidence, direction, and hope. As families make small changes, one step at a time, those efforts can bear fruit for eternity. It is my sincere hope that, in reading this book, parents may rediscover the beauty of their vocation. May they come to see their homes as God sees them: places where souls are formed, where love is purified, and where heaven begins to take root. For when parents take seriously the call to sanctify their children, they share in one of the most noble and beautiful works entrusted to human hands. Rev. Scott A. Haynes


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